My roommate and I got home near midnight last night after attending his best friend’s nuptials.
He was the “Man of Honor” and has devoted countless hours to making the bride’s big day as perfect as possible. Last night, he brought the house down with a toast that had the bride (and me) laughing out loud one moment and sobbing the next. A true rock-star moment…
Me? I was there as a guest. But I appointed myself an unofficial member of the bridal party. While taking photos at Saturday’s rehearsal I appointed myself assistant to the bride’s mother. Because I love moms. And because she needed a little extra tender loving care to make it through such a long, emotional day.
It was a lovely ceremony, full of pomp, circumstance(s), and joyful chaos. Most came dressed to impress, and everyone glowed under the wedding’s golden-hour sun and later beneath the reception’s dance floor lights.
Nearly a hundred people gathered from far and near to celebrate two people who found their way to each other. Some were family, some lifelong friends, others new faces drawn together by love’s gravitational pull.
It was one of those nights when the air itself felt charged.
With gratitude, nostalgia, and a little bit of magic.
Weddings remind me how communal love can be. Yes, the vows are between two people, but the celebration belongs to everyone they know and even a few they don’t know, including the wonderful folks who cooked, decorated, organized, and kept things running (mostly) smoothly behind the scenes.
It truly takes a village. Not just to raise a child, but to lift a couple into the next chapter of their lives.
As I watched my friend walk down the aisle, I thought about all the invisible hands that helped shape her big day: the shoulders she leaned on when things got tough, the group chats that kept her sane, the pep talks, the shared playlists, the late-night check-ins.
The newlyweds are already on a flight to their honeymoon, and I can only imagine how exhausted they must be this morning.
The bridal party, the groomsmen, and all the support staff who made the day such a beautiful success must be feeling it too. I hope their exhaustion is matched by a deep sense of gratitude and pride—for all the love they poured into making the celebration so memorable.
Since May, I’ve had a ringside seat to much of the planning and preparation. Last night, I got to see it all come together. The months of effort culminating in a joyful, sweaty, laughter-filled reception and dance party.
Watching the crowd shake their money makers, I thought maybe that’s what makes weddings so moving. They’re not just a celebration of romantic love, but of every kind of love that gets us here—the platonic, the familial, the enduring bonds of friendship that sustain us long before “I do.” During and sometimes after, too.
This morning, my feet ache and my voice is hoarse from singing along to the DJ’s bumping playlists. But my heart feels full.
Love doesn’t exist in a vacuum; it grows in community.
It takes a village, and I’m so grateful to be part of several.
Keep calm and Monday on!
Clint 🌈✌️
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Thanks for the great story. Clint I need to chat with you about something. Trying to find out prior chat. The website is very challenging for a newbie. -Tom
Clint, Sounds amazing. I had a recent wonderful wedding experience. The first in decades but filled with love. It lacked magic but I'll take that. You mentioned "Waved their money makers." What are those? Fondly, Michael